Are modern relationships and modern marraiges only ostensibly equal?
I think the problem here is that you’re working under the assumption that all women want the same things, and that the same kind of lifestyle would be most beneficial for all women. That isn’t true. I read your other post about Taken In Hand relationships, and while I am happy that it works for you, it would not work for me. It is not in my nature to be submissive in my personal relationships. It does not make me happy. I thrive in relationships where both people are on equal footing. It isn’t a business partnership like you implied in your last question. It’s just less about having a distinct leader and more about compromise. I hope that you can respect my choices, just as I respect yours. I am sure that FOR YOU, a relationship like mine would feel stifling and strange. But consider that, for me, the opposite is true. We all have to decide for ourselves what’s best for us. Edit: And in response to your first question, no. Again, for you it might have that effect. But I love sex, and I