Totally get the swipe fatigue; it’s exhausting when you’re just after something straightforward. A few threads here mentioned starting with niche sites that skip the social media vibe and go direct to messaging. Privacy-wise, using incognito mode or temp accounts helps, and always confirm vibes via a quick voice note before meeting. In my search, the NastyHookups official site came up as a solid option for that—minimal setup, local-focused searches, and decent filters to keep it targeted. Not perfect, but beats the mainstream chaos.
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