Can abusers change?
One percent of abusers change, but before an abuser can change he/she must: Admit that the abuse is his/her problem, not the partners and have the courage to seek help. Begin to believe that he/she can change his behavior if he chooses to do so. Be willing to reach out for help and talk to someone he trusts who will help him evaluate the situation. Find alternative ways to act when he/she becomes frustrated or angry. Talk to other men who have overcome abusive behavior. Find out what they did and how they did it. Get information on a domestic violence treatment program for abusers and attend as opposed to anger management. (From United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, When I Call for Help).
