Do girls like shy boys who don speak to them but internally want to talk with them…?
I’m not to talkative myself and from my experience, Unfortanately no. I think it’s pretty rare for a girl to make the first move because through all my years of HS I’ve never had one ask me out. This all equals one thing- If you want a GF you have to make the first move. The chances of a girl coming up to you and trying to open you up are 0% I know for a fact because again I’m quiet like you. With all of this said you have to plan a stategy. Try to get a girl in your group or circle which may make you more comfortable perhaps. I never had a GF however there was once a girl in my circle of friends and I wasnt the one who got to know her (one of my other friends did) We weren’t really close but hey at least I got to engage in a small conversation with a girl. So, see if your friends know any girls, invite them in. OR approach a quiet girl, you may find it less difficult versus a talkative girl.
Girls find guys who appeal to them, for whatever reason. If you have a decent personality, a good sense of humour, and show that you are trustworthy, caring and respectful, then you have a good chance. Many a good pairing happens when you least expect it, and as long as you are open minded, then there is always a chance of miss right coming along. An unfortunate thing with a lot of people is that they are looks orientated. Most people cannot help the fact that they have a different coloured skin, are not super model style looking, or may even, because of medical reasons, be different sized to everyone else. I would advise you to look for the things I mentioned first, which come from inside, and can last forever, whilst good looks and the like tend to fade with age. Finally, remember you are who you are, and putting on a persona that is not naturally you is silly, because you want the young lady to love you for who and what you are, not some image of who or what you think you are. Hope
Don’t worry, they are probably shy too. Sometimes they like attitude, but a sweet one. Don’t NEVER talk to her, she might think you aren’t interested. But if you talk too much she will get annoyed. Girls choice depends on the girl. If she is shy she probably needs a shy guy to make her feel better. An “OUT THERE” girl probably needs a guy like her (with attitude). If you practice being assertive around girls, you will become more confident. Flirt with her first in a shy way, then be assertive and ask her out. If you have too many similarities the relashionship will be boring. Try to have some differences that you can laugh about. Good Luck!
