How can my teen stay safe from an abusive dating partner?
Share these tips with your teen: Use a journal to keep track of the date the violence happened, where you were, exactly what the person you are dating did, and exactly what effects it caused (such as bruises). This will be important if you need the courts to order the person to stay away from you. Consider telling trusted friends, family members or co-workers. They can help screen telephone calls or visitors. Tell teachers, counselors, coaches, or security guards about what is happening at work or school. If you are ready to break up / leave your partner, do so over the phone or in a public place. Let other people know of your plans and let them know where you’ll be. Breaking up, and immediately after, can be the most dangerous time. Try not to be alone and avoid contact with the person. Spend time with your other friends and tell them what is happening. Never walk alone. Make a list of phone numbers, including 911, crisis lines, and supportive friends that you can call when you are up
