Realistically, for *most* people? 30, I would say. Longer than that often means the person has psychological issues that are preventing them having a sexually healthy life. This is not always the case – not by a *long* shot – but it’s true often enough to make it an impoprtant factor. Hell, I got laid my very first time several months before my 14th birthday (that was over 35 years ago and I have no regrets whatsoever). Even with that said… LOTS of men and women live long into their old age and even go to their death-bed without *ever* having sex, and there’s nothing wrong at all with them living their lives like that if that’s what they’ve honestly chosen. In the end, it’s an entirely personal choice, and if you truly make the right one for yourself, it doesn’t matter if you’re 12, 40 or already passed into the next life when you first have sex – or if you ever do at all. EDIT: … and I think you can see plainly by the thumbs up/down ratio on all of the responses here that a lot of