How will my cat handle another cat,a move, and losing her current feline friend?
You are an excellent cat mother for caring so much. But, baby, don’t lose sleep over it. Cats are more adaptable than people give them credit for. If you are not worried about the dogs, fine. And, if the cat at your parents house is an outdoor cat, don’t worry about that either. As far as moving, cats LOVE to explore and this just gives her brain and paws another workout. Losing the other cat (and your bf) is a little more difficult: but it is with humans too. When we lose someone, our heart breaks. It just takes time. Plus, they (I don’t know which cat you will take) are both young. At least your bf will visit. Don’t despair and good luck!