I met a guy last week who wanted me to use a femidom when we had sex, aren’t they meant just for women?
A. Femidoms (female condoms) were designed to be used by women, but some men use them. They can be worn like a standard condom on the penis, or inserted into the partner. Removing the inner ring before insertion will make it more comfortable and reduce the risk of rectal trauma and bleeding. They do provide an effective barrier during anal sex, but can still slip out and break, just like standard condoms. If you are in any doubt, and are not comfortable using it, then use a standard one instead.
