Was any other method used to prevent semen from spilling out afterwards (e.g., keeping legs crossed)?
RAH – Along the same lines as the two previous sections, this suggestion is designed to get as much sperm as close to the egg as possible. Of the two mentioned below, I would suggest the crossed-legs as preferable over the diaphragm; it seems to me that you might run the risk of trapping some of the sperm on the “wrong” side of the barrier. On the other hand, the diaphragm (or a cervical cap) might be a good idea, if you need to get up immediately to run a 10K race :-). – RAH This might sound crazy, but after my husband and I have sex I take a paper towel and fold one labia over the other and then cross my legs. 9 times out of ten when I have gotten up several hours later there was no leakage at all. This may sound a little off the wall, but even some doctors reccommend it. If you have a diaphram put it in after sex. It will act as a cervical cap. If you do not have one they are pretty inexpensive if you have you doctor [write a prescription]. I have not bought one for years, but if I