What are the drawbacks of passionate kissing, oral sex and other deliberate arousal techniques?
However clear your intentions may be when you crawl into each other’s arms, if you engage in certain activities, your biological auto-pilot will take over and lead you toward hot sex followed by separation. You probably view many such activities as quite wholesome and it seems like they must fit into the picture of healing sexuality somehow. In fact, however, lacy underwear, “posing” nude, frenzied kissing, crawling all over a partner naked, rubbing genitals on a partner, oral sex, viewing porn, and so forth, are all biological triggers. Years of experience and frustration have revealed the unwelcome, but simple, truth. These activities don’t fit into the picture of healing sexuality. Innocent and pleasurable as they are, they actually prevent you from finding the heart-centered ecstasy you are seeking by pulling all your attention swiftly toward the physical gratification of the urge they awaken.
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