What is Chinese peoples reaction to compliments?
Chinese people are very modest and not accustomed to show their feelings in public. So, when they are praised or complimented, the customary response is “no, no!” For example, when you praise a Chinese for his excellent achievement in the work, he would say: “no, no, my work is so-so”. When you applaud somebody for his cooking skills, the most possible reply is: “no, no, it is only suitable for filling the stomach.” “No, no” here does not mean that the Chinese think your compliments are wrong or improper. It is just an unpretentious reaction to your commendations. So, when you get such a response when praising a Chinese, do not be discouraged since your compliments have already been delivered successfully.
