When is it time to end a relationship?
Signs that it’s time to end a relationship… * You have a feeling of continuous frustration about the relationship (E.g., your emotional needs are not being met) * You’re finding more reasons to spend time apart * You’re being physically abused * You’re being emotionally abused * You no longer have strong feelings about your partner but reminisce about the feelings you used to have * You’ve changed your core values, beliefs and goals to accommodate your partner in hopes that your relationship will no longer be problematic * You’ve made drastic changes in your appearance hoping your partner will find you more attractive * You have a growing feeling of emptiness * You’ve put extreme distance or totally cut off former close relationships you used to have with your other friends and/or family
Sometimes he might just want to get back from work and wind down to some music and have a snooze, i think if you want to end it make sure it is over before you do, otherwise you will regret it, you could try putting on some sexy clothes and playing his fav music and when he gets home surprising him, or lie down together and snuggle to some good music and things like that, or you could if you like to go out get some concert tickets and go out together then after that try and get him to do something with you that you like to do and if he says he just wants to sit down and listen to music then maybe its time to think about what you want in life and who you want it to be with.
I say when you lose yourself worth and being in a relationship with a partner who is not vested in the marriage it is time to start the dialogue Divorce…..you only have one life to live and find happiness and love and if you do not get this from your marriage you have to take care of yourself and find your happiness…..
encounter this period in our relationship when we realize we may be living in a fantasy world. It is this point when we either make or break the relationship. When we pass this period of fantasy realization, we often begin to question our attraction to the mate we have chosen to spend countless hours with in the past several months. As we begin to analyze our very basic needs and feelings, it is during this period that many relationships dissolve, simply due to a sudden awakening and realization that our mate may not be the most suitable person for our life. As we pass through and beyond this phase of awareness, if the relationship survives, we often find that a whole new type of relationship emerges. It is during this newly developed relationship with our partner that we begin to develop other areas of our life, beyond the extreme sexual and physical tension. We begin to recognize how our partner is different from ourselves and we find ways in which to adapt and make those differences
There are many dynamics that play into a failing marriage and both of you need to work to keep it together. If he is spending time by himself, then take time for yourself, find a hobby or something, and see if he realizes he needs to spend time with you. Also, maybe this would be a good time for you to seek counseling and see what is going in your life, there are more qualified people in this world then the general public giving you free and flawed advice. Maybe you will see ways to lure him back, maybe you will see you may just want to end your marriage. This is nothing that you should decide overnight or even take for granted. But some advice on us men: Men sometimes fail to see the other side of marriage, we think we need to be the provider and believe we deserve time off when we get home. Sometimes we forget about the romance and emotional aspects and leave that to you ladies. We forget we need to be a part of your life besides just sex. If this is happening then assure him that yo
