Which of us is the jerk?
I read this and read your age and I have an overwhelming desire to tell you to run. I understand depression can be very rough. The lack of sex is expected. The disinterest in activities is understandable. Though, I think it’s kind of strange and cruel to sigh and huff, withhold any sort of physical attention, and to remain in a constant state of irritation. This guy sounds like a bully. He sounds incredibly immature. Why waste your life with somebody like this? What does he have to offer? Especially when he has no interest in discussing his mental state or even saying something simple like, “Girlfriend I am so sorry I have been a jerk and distant. I’m having a hard time. I’m not feeling like myself. etc. etc.” He has not tried to reach out to you. He does not care about your feelings. He must know you are suffering. He’s so wrapped up in his head and this childish game of making you both miserable. His relative has cancer? It doesn’t give him the right to lash out at you and treat you
