You may not really be in Basket B…in fact, if a meltdown was the end result, there’s an outstanding chance you were Basket A. Time to go back and review the three entry steps for Basket B (empathy, define the problem, invitation) – did you really use the three steps and in the correct order?
• If your child is accustomed to your being in Basket A, there’s a good chance it’s going to take a while before they become accustomed to your being in Basket B. In other words, they may still get heated up in your early attempts to use Basket B because they’re just accustomed to getting heated up whenever is difficult problem is broached. Once they begin to trust that you’re really doing things differently now, the calming effects of Basket B should take hold.
Related Questions
- You may not really be in Basket B…in fact, if a meltdown was the end result, there’s an outstanding chance you were Basket A. Time to go back and review the three entry steps for Basket B (empathy, define the problem, invitation) – did you really use the three steps and in the correct order?
- Can either player retreat at any time after 1st two attacks happen? Or do I have to wait until after every 2 attacks, so each player gets a chance to attack?
- During the time my Mezuzot are being checked, I am worried by the fact that in my entire house is not protected by even one Mezuzah. Do you have a solution?
