How divorce affects children?
Studies have shown that most children are completely recovered from the negative effects of divorce within three years. For some, it may take as long as five years, or they may even never recover completely. However, if the parents and their families are caring and proactive, the children will find a place in their new lives. It’s easy to see how a child might feel the effects of divorce even more than their parents. Unlike their parents, they had no fault in the divorce and no choice in the matter. They have no control over whether they lose their home or with whom they live. This lack of control only adds to the unhappiness divorce can cause. Because divorce can be so traumatic for children, it is important that the adults in their life show extreme sensitivity and go out of their way to help the children heal. In the end, a small investment of time now can prevent serious emotional and behavioral problems in the future.
