Whats really wrong with shy, smart girls?
There’s nothing wrong with shy smart girls,, lol, I used to think the exact same way until last year I realized that guys are more scared to show their feelings toward shy girls than more outgoing girls. But don’t worry I got a boyfriend last year and I’ve been with him for over a year, it may take a little bit longer, but those shy girls get the attention from guys that really care about them and took the shot at it.
I knew a shy girl from back when I was in junior high all the way to my senior year in high school. She was very nervous around me in the beginning, but in the last years of high school, I managed to “crack the shell” you might say that was keeping her from opening up to me. She was a very normal girl when we got past her shyness, but she had a terrible time talking out loud in public. Some people are just like that for whatever reason, but it doesn’t make me like them less.
Be a little bit more girlie. There is nothing wrong with displaying your femininity. Easiest way to get attention from a guy is by being feminine. Not slutty or skanky. But sexy. And stop deluding yourself that the right guy will see past no-makeup and boyish clothes. You will have hard time getting any male attention at all. By being more girlie you will have more options and choices. You don’t need to be overly sexual or appear whorish. Just brighten up your appearance. Also desperation is not sexy. For both men and women.
